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March 11, 2010, 4:42 am

“…Be as scrupulous in performing a ‘minor’ mitzvah as a ‘major’ one, for you do not know the reward given for the respective mitzvot. Calculate the…reward of a sin against its cost” (Ethics of the Fathers 2: 1). Read More »

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Nine Tips to “Give Good Phone”

March 9, 2010, 9:00 pm

In online dating, first impressions are crucial: usually people focus on having a good photo or writing a clever profile. Read More »

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The Chassidim of Ger

March 9, 2010, 8:52 pm

While the Holocaust destroyed numerous chassidic communities, some of the surviving sects maintained their significance and impact after the war. Such was the case of the Ger Chassidim… Read More »

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Lisa and Seth

March 5, 2010, 10:54 pm

“Little did I know that it wouldn’t take much more than a week to yield positive results.” Read More »

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10 Ways Aunts Make Great Dates

March 5, 2010, 10:44 pm

The same Jewish tradition that encourages our education and worldliness is also central to our sense of family. Many Jewish women struggle with wanting to have it all. While we are just as likely as our brothers to work in management, business and professional/technical positions (59% vs. Read More »

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How Social Media is Changing the World of Online Dating

March 5, 2010, 5:09 am

Recently at the Mashable holiday party, I spoke with good friend and fellow blogger David Berkowitz about the intersection between social media and online dating.  I proposed a new social network that would allow you to “rate” your dates similar to a Zagat ® guide. Read More »

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Dawn and Lewis

March 5, 2010, 4:38 am

“…although I had yet to meet ‘The One,’ I was confident that I would because my sister and best friend both met their husbands through JDate. Read More »

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Walk, Don’t Run Down the Aisle

March 5, 2010, 3:14 am

While you may be in a hurry to walk down the aisle you may want some “been there done that” perspective to help you make sure you are marrying not just for the sake of getting married. Read More »

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Pasta Puttanesca

March 5, 2010, 3:02 am

This is the perfect dish to use up some of that pasta lying around in your cabinets before Passover. I am embarrassed to think of how much pasta I consume in a year because of this dish. Read More »

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A Guard of Shabbat

March 4, 2010, 3:32 am

Two primary words of instruction are used in the Torah to command the observance of Shabbat: zachor, remember (Exodus 20: 8) and shamor (Deuteronomy 5: 12). According to tradition, remembering (zachor) refers to all of the positive… Read More »

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Purim! Again

March 2, 2010, 6:48 am

Unique to the Jewish calendar, Purim is actually observed on different days depending on location. The majority of the Jewish people celebrate Purim on the 14th of Adar (yesterday). However, Jews living in the city of Shushan… Read More »

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The Command To Remember

February 27, 2010, 7:24 am

This Shabbat is Shabbat Parashat Zachor , the Sabbath of Remembering. The Torah portion that is read as the Maftir (additional) portion after the conclusion of the regular weekly Torah reading, commands the Jewish people… Read More »

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Chocolate Bark for Mishloach Manot

February 26, 2010, 2:58 am

The mitzvah of giving baskets of food or Mishloach Manot on Purim is one I enjoy. I like the giving and of course the receiving! Mishloach Manot (Hebrew) or Slach Manos (Yiddish) means “sending portions” and refers to the food baskets given on Purim. Read More »

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Bouncing Back After a Breakup

February 26, 2010, 2:42 am

Breaking up appears to be the thing to do in February.  Up until now, I was under the impression that January was the most popular time of year to get booted, but judging by the number of written queries and calls I have received from hearts heavy and broken in the last couple of weeks, lovelorn singles seem to be trending this month. Read More »

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The Four Mitzvot of Purim

February 26, 2010, 2:34 am

Purim is celebrated on Sunday, February 28th (beginning after Shabbat on February 27th). Four mitzvot are associated with the holiday… Read More »

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Shabbat Heroics

February 24, 2010, 1:58 am

Question: What does a Sabbath-observant doctor do when a friend or neighbor needs emergency medical assistance on Shabbat? The answer: Everything necessary. Call an ambulance, cut a bandage, use a defibrillator… Read More »

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Under Oath

February 23, 2010, 4:20 am

Taking an oath of office or swearing* to tell the truth in court may not seem like a historic victory to Jews who were raised in the 21st century. However, for hundreds of years Jews were denied their legal rights/political voice because almost all… Read More »

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Start Living and Stop Playing the Waiting Game

February 19, 2010, 8:14 am

So why do so many singles hibernate instead of motivate? Personally, I believe it boils down to fear. Too many of us are afraid to try new things on our own, break out of our comfort zones, be disappointed, rejected or looked down upon… Read More »

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Throw a Purim Party that Kicks Tuchis!

February 19, 2010, 7:58 am

I like hamantashen and certainly have eaten my fill of the tender, cakey treats. Don’t get me wrong. They are delicious and fun to make. But, they are safe and not at all sexy… Read More »

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Purim’s Villainess

February 19, 2010, 3:12 am

Anyone familiar with the basic Purim story knows that the primary enemy of the Jewish people was Haman. What most people do not realize is that there are several other “lesser” villains who played pivotal roles… Read More »

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Lisa and Mark

February 18, 2010, 1:00 am

“…we relish the opportunity to plan the next half-century of our lives together.” Read More »

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Lisa and Mark

February 18, 2010, 12:48 am

“…we relish the opportunity to plan the next half-century of our lives together.” Read More »

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The Second Temple

February 18, 2010, 12:26 am

When the Babylonians exiled the Jews and destroyed the First Temple, Jeremiah the Prophet promised that the exile would only last 70 years. The return of the Jews, however, was not a miraculous, overnight occurrence, but proceeded more like a slow… Read More »

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10 Tips on How to Get a Second Date

February 16, 2010, 11:36 pm

Many of you have emailed me asking why you haven’t been getting second dates. Several guys claim that the women on JDate are serial daters while others have claimed that most women aren’t interested in relationships. Read More »

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Sara and Steve

February 16, 2010, 11:24 pm

“People constantly ask us how we found each other. After telling them we met on JDate, my best friend, her aunt, and about 40 other people have signed up, hoping to find their Sara. Read More »

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What’s With The Salt

February 13, 2010, 5:36 am

At every Shabbat meal, the blessing of Ha’mo’tzee (the blessing over bread) is recited over two complete loaves of bread. This ‘bread’ is usually the braided loaves known as challot, but any type of bread is acceptable as long as it is uncut and… Read More »

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The Great Valentine’s Day Debate

February 12, 2010, 4:02 am

The great Valentine’s Day debate started brewing over dinner the other night. The question at issue:   Should you or should you not celebrate the holiday with someone with whom you’ve shared three dates or less and, if so, what is appropriate? Read More »

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JDate’s Rabbi of the Month – Rabbi Tamara Miller of The Center for Integrative Medicine, …

February 12, 2010, 3:56 am

“I recommend JDate to all my single clients who want to find someone to connect with and, maybe, eventually marry. Joining JDate is a way of telling the universe that you are ready for love in all the right places with all the right people. Read More »

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Tali and Matthew

February 12, 2010, 3:44 am

“They say that when G-d creates your soul, He splits it in half. One half goes to you and one half goes to your soul mate. Tali and I are celebrating the re-attachment of two pieces of the soul. Read More »

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Salem and Joe

February 12, 2010, 3:30 am

“Joe was smitten from day one, but Salem was a bit more stubborn.” Read More »

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